The Song Annie Martell Loved Most Was Not the One Everyone Expected
When people think of John Denver and Annie Martell, they usually think of one song first: “Annie’s Song.” It became one of the most recognizable love songs of the 1970s, written after John Denver returned from skiing in Aspen and found the words almost fully formed in his mind. For years, the song carried the image of a young marriage wrapped in tenderness and memory.
John Denver and Annie Martell married in 1967, when both of them were still very young. Their story seemed, at least from the outside, like the kind of love story that could last forever. John Denver was rising fast as a singer and songwriter, and Annie Martell was the woman at the center of a song that would follow him for the rest of his career.
But real life is rarely as simple as a hit record.
As the years passed, the marriage became more difficult. John Denver and Annie Martell separated in 1982, and the divorce eventually followed. During that painful period, John Denver wrote another song for Annie Martell: “Perhaps Love.” It was quieter than “Annie’s Song,” less instantly famous, but it carried a different kind of feeling. It sounded like a man trying to understand what love becomes when it is no longer easy.
A Love Song Written During Loss
John Denver died on October 12, 1997, in a plane crash in California. He was 53. The next day, Annie Martell was interviewed about him, and her answer surprised many people. Her favorite John Denver song was not “Annie’s Song.” It was “Perhaps Love.”
That detail matters because it changes the meaning of the story. “Annie’s Song” was written when the marriage was still alive with warmth and devotion. “Perhaps Love” came later, when the relationship was breaking apart and both people were being forced to live with change. Annie Martell’s choice suggested that the song written in sorrow may have felt more honest, or more tender in its own way, than the one written in happiness.
Sometimes the song that hurts the most is the one that tells the truth best.
The Memory That Stayed
In the years after John Denver’s death, the public continued to remember him through the songs that made him famous. Yet Annie Martell’s response offered a more human and complicated picture. Love is not only the bright moment when everything feels new. Sometimes it is also the moment when two people are trying, and failing, and still speaking to each other with music.
That is why Annie Martell’s answer still feels powerful. It was not a rejection of “Annie’s Song.” It was something more layered than that. It was a reminder that a relationship can contain joy, grief, memory, and respect all at once.
John Denver wrote songs that many people sang around the world. Annie Martell lived the private story behind them. And when she chose “Perhaps Love,” she revealed something unexpected: the deepest love song may not always be the one written at the beginning. Sometimes it is the one written when the ending is already near.
