WAYLON HAD ALMOST GIVEN UP ON LOVE WHEN JESSI MET HIM. SHE REALIZED THE WOMEN BEFORE HER HAD BEEN COMPETING WITH SOMETHING SHE NEVER WOULD — HIS MUSIC. Years later, when Jessi Colter was asked about Waylon Jennings and Dreaming My Dreams, she explained something most fans never saw. Waylon had been through enough heartbreak that, in Jessi’s words, he had “pretty much given up” by the time they found each other. She came to believe part of the problem was simple: women before her had sometimes felt that Waylon’s music was “another woman.” Jessi understood differently. She was a songwriter and musician herself. She knew the late nights, the recording sessions, the endless search for the right song were not something she had to defeat. They were part of the man she loved. That is why Dreaming My Dreams meant so much to her. Jessi heard in the song a man trying to let go of bitterness, anger and old hurt. Their marriage would face plenty of storms afterward. But Jessi believed one thing helped it survive: she never asked Waylon to choose between her and the music. “I saw that great part of him and never lost sight of it.”
Waylon Jennings, Jessi Colter, and the Love Song That Held Their Marriage Together By the time Jessi Colter met Waylon…