THE FIRST TIME WAYLON JENNINGS MET JESSI COLTER, HE DIDN’T FALL IN LOVE WITH HER. SHE MADE HIM MAD. Jessi was still married to guitarist Duane Eddy when Waylon first crossed paths with her. Duane had asked Waylon to sing a duet with Jessi on a song she had written. It was not romantic. Waylon later admitted that Jessi irritated him almost immediately. “She made me madder than anybody,” he recalled. She challenged him, pushed his buttons, and seemed to know exactly how to get a reaction from the man who would later become one of country music’s toughest outlaws. Only later did Waylon understand what she had been doing. Jessi was trying to see the real man underneath the attitude. She wanted to know whether there was any fire behind the quiet stare and deep voice. There was. After Jessi’s marriage ended, she and Waylon eventually found their way back to each other. They married in 1969 and stayed together for more than three decades, through fame, addiction, recovery, parenthood, illness, and the final years of Waylon’s life. One of country music’s most enduring marriages began with a woman making an outlaw angry enough to show her who he really was.
How Jessi Colter Turned Waylon Jennings’ First Impression Into a Lasting Love Story The first time Waylon Jennings met Jessi…