Before Shirley Collie became Willie Nelson’s second wife, she was already beside him on one of his first Top 10 records. Years later, a hospital bill would help bring their marriage to an end. Willie and Shirley recorded “Willingly” together in 1962, and the duet reached the country Top 10. They married in 1963, while Willie was still struggling to turn his songwriting reputation into success as a singer. But in 1969, a hospital bill arrived at their home. It showed that a baby girl had been born to a woman listed as “Mrs. Connie Nelson.” Shirley had not known Willie was having an affair with Connie Koepke. She confronted him. Willie later admitted there was no explanation that could make the situation look innocent. He and Shirley divorced in 1971, and he married Connie that same year. Decades later, Willie did not try to rewrite what happened. He said he regretted the pain he had caused Shirley and his other wives, admitting that when it came to love, he had always had a gift for making things complicated. The marriage ended badly. But before it did, Shirley had already become part of Willie Nelson’s story — not only as his wife, but as one of the first voices the world heard singing beside him.
Shirley Collie and Willie Nelson: The Song Before the Split Long before Willie Nelson became a country music legend, his…